Sep 2, 2026
When does helping a struggling child become over-accommodating them? Educational and therapeutic consultant Josh Doyle joins host Zack to explore why loving, well-intentioned parents may repeatedly rescue an anxious teenager or young adult—and how that pattern can unintentionally undermine confidence, independence, and resilience. Drawing on more than 30 years of experience with adolescents, young adults, and families, Josh explains the difference between offering compassion and removing every obstacle or uncomfortable experience.
Josh and Zack discuss parental accommodation, anxiety and OCD, failure to launch, and the importance of allowing young people to experience manageable struggle. They explore why parents must learn to tolerate their own discomfort, how rescuing can communicate a lack of confidence in a child’s abilities, and why stepping back may be one of the strongest ways to say, “I believe in you.” This episode offers parents a thoughtful framework for supporting a child or young adult without taking over—helping them develop the skills to navigate discomfort, solve problems, and build their own path into adulthood.
Zack’s Hack: In this week’s anxiety hack Zack shares a quote from Franklin D. Roosevelt that will help you to Fear Less!
Fear Less is sponsored by Mountain Valley Treatment Center